Help for people with OCD ~ moving beyond the fear!

I would say that in today’s culture that almost everyone has heard of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. If you haven’t seen it portrayed in all it’s infinite, seemingly ‘crazy’ glory via the hit TV shows Monk, Friends or The Big Bang Theory, you’re sure to have seen it played out on reality TV in recent years. TV, Vh1, TLC and Discovery Channel have each found an audience over the years by spying into the private lives of men and women plagued by OCD.

In case you’re not sure or in case you have a TV Sunday Night movie idea of just what OCD is, let me just state that OCD is far more than a need for cleanliness and symmetry in one’s daily life. It has, over the years, morphed from being considered some sort of insanity, to a neurosis, to a chemical imbalance, to an anxiety disorder. No matter what science prefers to label it today, it is a very real source of emotional and mental torture for more than 2% of the population. While parallel fights ensue in the world of psychology and biology over just what causes OCD (genetics, viruses, environment) there is no question that the millions of people who suffer from it seek relief over and over again. For some, that relief is found via medications, changes in diet and counseling. For others, there seems to be no relief at all. For me, it was my faith in God and the plan He gave me that set healing in motion for this once OCD entrapped person.

Over 14 years ago I found relief for my OCD, without drugs. In fact, taking a medication never occurred to me. I’m not against pharmaceutical help if needed. But for me, faith was the solution. At first, I was afraid not to seek God. But it wasn’t a healthy kind of ‘fear of the Lord’; it was a deep alarming fear of God, of people, places, death, circumstances…almost everything. Some people are so plagued by religious fear due to their OCD that they never get past the religiousness to discover God and freedom through Him. I was once in that place too.

OCD manifested in many other ways in my life besides what I now know was merely 'religious obsession and fear'. (What I have now is faith and belief, not religion.) My memories of suffering with OCD stretch back to the age of 8. With each passing year my compulsive behaviors became worse. By the time I was 30 I was nearly fully home-bound, unable to keep a regular job and afraid of everything.

Fear – that’s the driving force behind OCD. A real, succinct, deep-seeded fear of…well, anything and everything imaginable. Sometimes the fears are rational and sometimes they aren’t. But the need to control something, anything, compels the OCDer to take action…any action, in order to feel better. Hence the counting, repeating, checking, touching, cleaning, hoarding….counting, repeating, checking…

Over time I have realized that if you have a lack of faith then fear will quickly invade your mind; your waking and sleeping thoughts. I also discovered that faith is not the opposite of fear but faith IS the ability to see beyond the fear into the eyes of truth. If fear is darkness then faith is turning the lights on! And faith - that's having the courage to do something about it, even though you're afraid to. Once a person can see the lies for what they are, then the brain of that person with OCD can begin to dispel the many lies that make them feel compelled to obsessive, repetitive, nonsensical actions.

I am a seasoned, experienced, non-suffering OCDer ready to share with you the path God took me down in order to manage and heal from the inside out! The brain of someone with OCD is compelling, intelligent and sharp. I learned to use my OCD to control my Ocd! And that means you can too. God showed me how to use His Word, faith, prayer and some simple steps to help train my OCD brain to manage my Ocd without it stopping me from living. Before long, my compulsive actions and out of control thoughts that once took up 90% of my day reduced to taking up less than 10% of my day…and it still holds true today. Fear has been replaced with peace and faith has continued to grow…faith in God, faith in myself and faith in the plan He has for my life.

My quest is to help others see that OCD IS something you can live with, control, eradicate, deal with, move beyond and you CAN keep it from stealing your joy. Through faith in action, even if your faith is currently enveloped in OCD, you can find healing.

For more info on my journey, please follow this blog and check out my book, "Breaking Free from OCD" (Free in the Kindle Lending library and for Kindle Unlimited subscribers.)

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Don't be anxious about ANYTHING? How do I do that?

"Don't be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV)

In Philippians it tells us that being in Christ will help guard our hearts and minds. When we allow ourselves to be immersed in Jesus Christ’s grace and love, then we are supplied with all the armor we need to keep falsehoods from taking us down to a place we don’t emotionally or mentally need to be…namely, to a place of anxiety and worry.

I used to be a worry-wart of the worst kind. I would worry if I didn’t worry enough about something! (Yea, seriously.) I was afraid if I didn’t worry then I didn’t care enough. Talk about a vicious cycle that kept me from peace and from a good night’s sleep! The older I get the more keenly aware I am of how I need to guard my heart and mind against worldly stimulus and materialistic ideas. As I seek to keep my identity in Christ the more Satan tends to creep up on me, trying to steal my quiet time and my peace. When I let my guard down or attempt to keep the world at bay all by myself then I can see myself go into a gradual decline of worry, low self-esteem and even anger because I feel out of control of my emotions.

Is that you? Do you get anxious often? Panic-stricken? Worried? During hormonal times via PMS and menopause, those bouts of worry can easily become worse. (And yes, for women AND men, hormones can really effect your emotions.)For women, as you’re hitting those low points I encourage you to be prepared. It’s not like you don’t know the signs that your period is coming, correct? It’s not like you don’t know you’re in menopause, right? Then be prepared…in and out of cycle, to seek His Word and spend additional time in prayer so you can guard your heart and mind for the times when your body effects your mindset, causing your anxiety to increase.

Not sure where to start? First of all, devotionals are helpful but also taking time to mark passages ahead of time that you can easily turn to when you’re feeling anxious is a great idea. (You wouldn't go out in the desert without water would you? Then why go into a cycle of raging hormones without midol and the Word to encourage you?) Look in your Bible for scriptures that personally feel comforting to you on a regular basis and that remind you of God’s truth - that you need not fear because God’s got everything in His hands. (Suggestions: 2 Timothy 1:7, 1 John 4:18, Psalms 27: 1-3, Isaiah 41:10)

For more encouragement check out "28 Days of PMS – Praising My Savior" – a humorous, uplifting devotional for women.

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